Anyone know of an ACM module that will deal with playing and charging my ipod and connect to the steering wheel controls of the car?

I am struggling and playing through the aux is useless when you forget to push pause and come back to a flat ipod battery.

You can get a lead with a third end, plug it into a USB cigarette lighter adapter and you can charge too. Lot cheaper

Griffin do a great lead with track select, fast forward etc on the cigarette lighter part of the socket, works perfectly now and not expensive at all.